It's my party...and I'll scream if I want to.

     So, we got the Venue. The State Theater is a beautiful place, and from what I've heard so far very unique. Which is exactly what I wanted.

     oh yea, we go the dress too. If you want to see it... well, you'll have to wait.

     Tuesday was one of those days that I had to wonder if we were doing the right thing. Not the getting married part but the wedding part. Tuesday had me wondering why we even needed to spend thousands of dollars on a wedding that someday people might look back on a say 'eh, it was okay' and forget what it was even about. But I was dutifully reminded that the wedding wasn't only about the couple, no, contrary to what most brides believe, it's about the families that are joining the two people together. As much as I love the idea of popping some plane tickets to Vegas, and coming back married. No, I'll be patient. I'll wait until January and I'll weather whatever storm blows my way. Because what doesn't kill me makes me stronger right? Right, I'll just keep telling myself that.

     Bridesmaids, forgive me for changing my mind again. What we'll be doing for the bridesmaid dresses is black and long, look for something that has class and elegance.  Here's some choices for you:

(1), (2): Savannah tried this one on. It was amazing!

Btw, if you girls buy from David's Bridal, the event number for us is:

02861402013655

Also, I don't want to limit you guys to just buying from David's Bridal. Since we're doing black and long, feel free to search else where for dresses.

I love these! (3). They are so cool! I would definitely recommend these if they are in the budget :)

Savannah shared this link with me to share with the rest of you, vender list of designers that have gorgeous, glamourous dresses for, so I hear, under $200.

What's next? Cake design. This is what I have so far:

Something that seems to mimic like a theater tower, the top of the base I want to cover with Calla Lilies. and at the top of the tower, do something very like spot lights.

Like this! 

But of course, they won't be moving. If they were, Oh my gosh, that'd BE SICK! Maybe I can make that...

As for the invitations, I'll be starting those today. Need to get designing! I have a bunch of good ideas that shouldn't be too costly. Yay me.

Anyways, that's all for right now.